After being Nepal’s first Mr. Handsome Gay, how are you feeling?
Obviously, I’m feeling very happy right now. My dream has come true and I would like to thank the organizers who provided us the platform to showcase our talents.
How tough was the competition for you?
The competition was very tough. Altogether, there were 35 contestants and 18 were selected during the last round. From those 18 contestants, my name was announced as the winner. However, all of them are very talented and smart.
What was your family members’ reaction during that time?
They were also happy and were proud of their child. They’ve been very supportive and I hope they’ll always support me.
What’s the importance of such type of contest for a gay?
These types of contests mean a lot for us as it provides us a chance to show our talents to the whole world. It also helps us to carve our identities in the society.
How did you family react when you told them you were gay?
When I told them about my condition, they didn’t support me in the beginning. They tried their best to ignore and avoid me. But slowly and steadily they adapted themselves to the idea.
What are the other challenges that a gay has to face in the society?
Our society is still not ready to accept gay people. We have to fight a lot to earn our place in the society. But the scenario is changing with time and I hope our next generation won’t have to face the same problems we’re facing today.
Today, most gay people don’t want to come out with their real identity. Why is it so?
It’s the society and its reaction that stops them from doing so. Also, most people think that gay and transgender people are the same, which isn’t true. They think we are also involved in sexual activities and have multiple sex partners. It’s the mindset of the public that forces gay people to live in cocoons.
What should be done to change people’s mindset?
I think these kinds of competitions must be organized which not only provide platforms for gay people to show their talents but also spread awareness. Through such events, people will come to know that though we’re different, we live dignified lives.
What do you want to suggest to other gay people who don’t want to come out with their real identity?
Nothing is impossible in this world. We must have the courage to share our real identities in front of the whole world. We have to fight for our rights not only by organizing different rallies and protest programs for the government to notice us but also by participating in such events where the public can see who we actually are.
What are your plans for the future?
I shall continue to work for the welfare of gay people in the future. And I shall try to make a good society where gay people can live happy and respected lives.
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