The term love, it is hard to define and difficult to express by words. Frankly speaking, love is the feeling of two souls, where I can see everything possible because of love. In fact, love has a powerful energy which gives us so much humbleness. Besides this, being in love reduces anger, stress, fear, anger and increases pleasant feelings in life. As a result, we will succeed in each and every kind of task in life. To quote Sholom Aleichem, “Life is a dream of the wise, a game for the fool, a comedy for the rich, a tragedy for the poor.” On top of that, however, twists and turns can appear while living with life.
The definition of love has been changing day-by-day along with its negative connotations. Sadly, it is not hyperbolic to say that nowadays people are compelled to live in the most painful conditions in love. By not believing in each other’s behaviors. Similarly, the relationships have been turning into messy sorts of situations. That’s the reason why most of the boys and girls have been living with broken-up relationships in their so-called modern love. Here is what I’d like to tell you that — A true love has always been directed by these four basic characters, namely kindness, compassion, joy, and inclusiveness.
Is it really impossible to forget ‘first’ love?
First and foremost, kindness makes us happy. After all, without being happy, how can we make others happy? This is indeed the first character when we are realized while we fall in love with someone. So, kindness matters a lot when it comes to true love. Secondly, compassion makes us feel loved about each and every living entity on this planet. Therefore, without being cultivated compassion in our life, we cannot be positioned in a true love at all. If we don’t have compassion regarding living entities, such attitudes have stopped us from feeling the same level of compassion for others and living beings.
Thirdly, you know what joy is — when we feel so happy within ourselves and the rest of the world is also becoming happy too because we are seeing through the eyes of joy rather than seeing in an unhappily manner. Most importantly, joy will lead us to become happy as well as a prosperous path of our life.
Fourthly, inclusiveness hides our responsibilities when it comes to accomplishing given tasks. Surprisingly, we are blaming someone else. By saying ‘that’s your problem’. My simple logic is that in a true love there is no separation of any kind of work. However, people might say that that’s your fault, not mine at all. How shameful they may be? In short, true love always acknowledges the prime level of inclusiveness.
And lastly, let us practically apply all these valuable characters in life to be blessed with love forever.
