According to Mignon Mclaughlin “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person”.
A marriage is a lifelong bond between two persons and between two families. A marriage is a promise to be with each other all our life. When we are married to someone, they not only became our responsibilities but part of our life. We have to love and care for them all our life. We have to trust them; we have to be more open and forgiving. These days because of our busy schedule we don’t get much time to spend with each other due to which misunderstandings takes place between couples. Today divorce rates are very high. There should be no ego between couples. If we think from woman side than she has left her home and her family just to be with a man she is willing to live her whole life. We should never take our marriage relationship just for granted. In marriage relationship we have to listen to each other. Even if there is some misunderstanding, we have to look for solutions and have to move towards saving our relationship.
Today it is easy to get distracted because of these social networking sites where we spent hours. After marriage it is ok if we have to make some compromises to make our relationships stronger. Generally, after few years of marriage the relationship don’t remain interesting that it used to be before so we both have to take initiatives from our side not to make it dull and boring. In any relationships small things matter so don’t forget to make each other day special by wishing them good wishes every day, on their birthday or on their anniversary. We have seen couples fighting over trivial matters which sometimes take the relationship to an end. We have to work to make things better.
Marriage – cost, preparation and what not
We have to work to make our relationship stronger. If there are some misunderstandings, we have to look to our elders who are living with each other’s for many years and living life happily and blissfully. There are couples who are together for all their life and till their deathbed. If you ask them about the secrets of their marriage, they will say the same thing that there should be love and trust between two partners. They will tell you to keep your promises that we made to each other to remain happy all our life in any circumstances.
