Relationship issues have really become a topic of discussion in the present times.
I´ve been stunned by how relationships have actually become an “issue” and “complicated tapestry.” [break]
Since no one seems to be willing to take the blame for making complications out of the sacred emotions involved in relationships, I write about pointing a finger at some of the human traits responsible for relationship failures and complications.
If we look around, we can see that relationships fail when there is lack of negotiation, compromise and trust between the people who share the bond. People have become far more egoistic today.
As a result, they turn a blind eye on the fact that sometimes wisdom lies in nodding their head in agreement with their counterpart during an agreement even if they don´t agree to it at heart.
This, in layman´s term, is called compromise. But since compromising would mean hurting their ego, some people let their ego spoil their relationship instead, and the scars of which remain intact in their heart forever and always and hence act as tannins, adding bitter taste to their life.
Likewise, some people cheat in relationships as if it were a test. I don´t think I need to add color to prove this because we´ve been witness to it. The world seems to be teetering on the brink of falsehood.
You may question me about my act of putting the blame on some of the human traits and not human beings as a whole for relationship failures.
This isn´t a million dollar question because the answer is simple, yet thoughtful. An example would be, for instance, a courteous and calm person who is made to sit in a place where people are habituated with using expletives and swearing like troopers. So it’s likely that he’ll inculcate similar kinds of traits.
Similarly, if there’s negativity in your vicinity, it´s impossible for you to stay positive at all times. One ultimately gets attacked by negativity, and if it conquers our heart, we end up doing insane things. Sad but true, our insanity makes us lose our loved ones.
We know that even if lovers part ways, their souls remain connected for an eternal period of time and destiny brings them together all over again. However, efforts are required from our side to see destiny´s magic.
It’s been truly and rightly said that true love never dies. So, with love in our heart, let’s forgive and plead for forgiveness. Let’s make an appeal to the love of our life to step back in our life and fill our life with immense love.
To love and be loved, positivism is required. So, let´s take a vow to stay positive at all times and take our relationship to new horizons.
The writer is a +2 graduate from St. Xavier´s College in Kathmandu.
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