Every father is a superhero that needs no cape. Some understand, and acknowledge their hard work, while others take their heroic deeds for granted. But no matter what, the everyday superman has always shielded the entire family from any trouble and willingly provided more than just the basic requirements. Saluting their contributions, My City asked its readers to share their favorite memory with their father. Here are some responses that show how awesome a father can be. 

Suva BC

I remember how my father used to carry me every night just to make me sleep though he didn’t know any bedtime stories or poems. I always fell asleep in his arms, as those arms of his always gave me a warm feeling and assured that everything was all right. He used to hold me high up saying, "My daughter will make me proud one day." Those words of his still buzz in my ears, which eventually wake me up from my childhood dreams and realize that those childhood days are gone forever.

Papa and I had always been extremely close. He used to talk endlessly. I was a “daddy’s little girl”. We always understood each other very well, probably because we were alike: opinionated, creative, stubborn and fun loving. My father was someone who always tried to make each and every day of mine happier than it was before. Well, I couldn’t spend too many of my days with him as he was bound by his responsibilities toward the nation as an army officer. But still, those little moments that I spent with him make me feel that he is still with me. I remember those corny jokes he said that brought the smile to my family members. But what I remember the most is the warm hug that he frequently gave me. I never knew that those happy moments with him were soon going to end though. There is nothing worse than watching someone you love so much fade away. But hats off to him –even in his last hours he kept on smiling.
You will always be my shining star, Daddy. (In memory of my Father)

Tsheten Lama

My miles away farther father, 
Although you are miles away from me, your undying memories will always remain in my heart, giving me the warmth of your presence, and providing me the shades of love you have bestowed on me. Dear father, I have not forgotten the values you have instilled in me, the sense of self-respect that I should always have in me, the stand that I always should take when needed. The most important lesson you taught is to not hurt others in the process of making yourself happy. I remember you teaching how heading forward valuing honesty and sincerity would harbor a sense of self-contentment. And father, no matter what life treats me with, I assure to carry your teachings throughout my life. I am fond of going out and traveling and to make them true.  I often had to argue against your typical thinking “Din bhari gumnu ani rati chai ghar farkinu” and when I again start convincing you, your silent and strict Charlie Chaplin look sufficed me to wisely understand the situation. But now when my academics pressure would not let me live like I used to, you would say “Roam at your heart’s content and ‘gumney bela ma gumnu parcha”. And curls of smile reflect in my chubbier cheeks. However, inviting lone feelings because now I have changed and want to roam ‘at my heart’s content’ not with my friends but with you. 
Dear father, just with you.
Happy Father’s Day!

Hritika Joshi

I was one-year-old, and I didn’t recognize my father because he had been out on a mission for a few months. It’s just a story for us to laugh at now, and when I say it’s the little things that create big memories, I mean it. I love walking, especially with Papa. It’s more like an escape button for me; he says it’s been that way since my childhood. Papa used to take me out for short walks since I was a year and a half; we would walk some 500 meters and come back with a chocolate in my hand. I’ve spent more than half my childhood holding his hands, walking or running. I’m 18 years old now, independent enough to go for a walk alone but I still prefer going out for walks when I have Papa around me. I still hold his hands. I still get back home with chocolates or ice-cream in my hand. Well, the only thing that’s changed is the distance. We walk a long distance now because unlike the old days we know each other from the depths of our souls, and have unlimited life talks to talk about.

Shine Amgain

Staying with baba feels like I've got all the power to rule the world. Even when we spend a few moments together, every second is cherished, and every hour we talk makes me feel I am the  luckiest one. Even though we may be miles and miles away, we will be together forever. And if you're reading this, firstly I want to apologize for reading yours and mom’s text which read, “Don’t tell our problems to Shine, she will be too worried." That moment made me remember the quote we discussed on school, “Father is the girl's first love and son's first hero." Whatever you've done for the family, never failed to draw a curve in our faces. You were the best, you are the best and you will be the best. You have never let us down, you have given me the best gift I could get and today I am who I am because of you. I'm proud to be your princess. 
Missing you here!

Dr Prakash Banjade

I have learned a great deal of my father’s precious life values. Indeed, these values are not ephemeral to me. They linger deep in my heart and soul. Thinking of all of his positive legacies, I will say that I am very proud to be his son. Most of all, my father is a hero of my life. Another inspiration for me is that my father is a living proof of a person who achieved his life goals through the so-called “biggest investment in education”. Born in a poor family, he was abandoned by his parents, who never thought that it was important to give their children a chance to go to school. My father, at a very young age, learned that the only way to get out of poverty was to have a good education. Service without expectation of material gain or recognition is a true act of heroism, and my father is famous for his generosity. I only hope that someday I can repay him for all he has done and continues to do for me. His strong work ethic has taught me that getting what you want in life means working for it and earning it. I am proud of my father. He is a noble soul who is dedicated to helping others. His teachings and values inspired me to become a better human being.

Sachin Dangi

A kid living the first decade of his life was there looking through his window. He could see his dad walking out into the rain, jumping from one stone to next; just to prevent his office dress from getting dirty. The kid turned toward his mum and asked in a soft voice, “Does he have to go to the office when it rains? Why can’t we buy a bike or a car, so that dad would not have to jump on from one stone to next?” Mum replied, “Your dad had an option, either to buy a bike or a car or to send you to a good school, he had the option to take a day off when it rains or to put in front of you the very dish you want to eat rather than the dish you can afford to eat.” That kid is living the second decade of his life now and these words never seem to get old. For all the things you have sacrificed, the times and personal fun you’ve had to let go, every extra work hour your put into work, Thank you for everything and I rarely tell you in words but Dad I love you. 

Prabesh Khadka
When I was a kid, my father and I used to play games together and also used to explore many places. Since we shared a passion for traveling, my childhood was memorable. We went to various places to-gether but when I completed my SLC, he surprised me with a trip to Lumbini.  Traveling with my father has always been funny and worth remembering. After Lumbini, my father took me to Darjeeling and it was one of the best trips I had with my father. 

Bishal Dhakal
My father is the best father in the world because he teaches me everything he knows. When I was 12, my father took me to Gorkha Durbar and he acquainted me with the historical facts about the con-struction of the Gorkha palace and the rise of the Prithvi Narayan Shah.

Niraz Phuyal
I used to smoke with my friends. My father came to know about it. When he knew about my bad hab-it, he said, “In life, we have to face many problems. Some can handle it whereas some cannot. You are suffering because you welcomed smoking into your life.” I stopped smoking from that day.

Anil Gurung
I haven’t spent much time with my father because of a communication gap. But when I was 3 or 4 years old, we were trying to boil noodles. We had already boiled the water. I was sitting next to my sister and dad. As I was approaching to go on the other side, I misbalanced and my right hand got into the boiling water. He immediately put my hand into the cold water.

Sumesh Maharjan
My dad is usually busy with his driving job.  Due to that, we don’t get to spend much time. However, he bought me a bicycle when I passed the seventh grade with good grades. He bought me the cycle after finding out that I had been saving money for a cycle. I had a dream of riding a bicycle and my fa-ther made my dream come true. 

Man Kumar Tamang
I always wanted a laptop. When I asked my father to buy me one, he said he could only afford a com-puter. One month later, I saw a laptop in my father’s room. I thought it wasn’t for me. Later, when I working on my assignments, he revealed that he had bought the laptop for me.

Bikant Tamang
My father always tells, “Work like a donkey and eat like a king.” I have got an uncountable beating from my father because of my childish behavior. Like me, he also likes Newari food. Maybe that’s a reason why he married my mother. My dad also says, “A snake without poison and a man without am-bition are useless.” The days I spend with my dad traveling around are have been the most memora-ble for me.

Ayush Khadka
My dad is an honest policeman. He does not have much time for us as he is always busy at work. But the way he takes care of us is amazing. Every time he comes home for vacation has been memorable -- watching movies together, going to the zoo and museums. He once took me to the police barracks and we spent our holidays there. Apart from that, he also took me to Goa which was refreshing. Every moment I spend with him is the most precious thing which will always be in my mind and heart. I feel lucky to have my dad. 

Aryan Shrestha
When I was 10 years old, my father brought me a bicycle. I was very happy because I had been want-ing to learn to ride a cycle. He taught me to ride by holding the handle of my bike. Because of him, I was able to ride a bicycle. 

Abiral Tamang
My favorite incident was when he had returned from South Korea. Every kid used to come to school with their father, and I would ask my mom where my father was. When I was eight, he finally came to Nepal; I still remember the very first day.

Bandana Lama
When I turned 11, my father couldn’t attend my birthday. I was left with a broken heart. But later, I found out that he was attending a business meeting. Despite his schedule, he gifted me my favorite doll and I gave him one tight hug and a beautiful kiss.

Sampujya Lama
I am missing you very much in Kathmandu. Living away from you, I have a lot to tell that I have not told in these years. When I sit back and remember all those countless times that you carried me on your shoulders, I am convinced that God knew that you would be the one for me. You are the man who motivated me on my ‘walk of life’. I want you to know that I feel blessed to have you in my life.

Although you were never as vocal as mom, your quiet but strong presence was always there for me. You have been there during my ups and downs, so it is safe to say I would be nothing without you. At times, when everything was wrong in life and I was wondering where to turn, I found comfort in your arms. You have always been proud of me whether I was a star or not.

If I start thanking you, even after decades, I would barely scratch the surface. You are always away because of your job. However, you always kept my happiness in front of everything. I remember you turning the house upside down the times I was sick. You always said that I was, am and will always be your princess. I may not be the daughter you deserve but my love for you is beyond words.

Dad, you have pampered this little girl too much. Now it’s hard to live without your love. Though you always hid your problems from me, I know you fight every day for us. When I asked if you ever want-ed a son, you always told me that I was not just your daughter, but also your son. You taught me to dream, and also helped me fight my nightmares. I am growing older but I promise you I may outgrow your lap but never your heart. You taught me to love myself and be proud of myself.