2 years ago
Who needs a TAG?
Love relationships are of various types; some give us what we are looking for, some change our prospect of what being together is, some last longer than we think and some end abruptly. There is no term for the connection yet there are times when we want to take the relation forward and it doesn’t happen. There are situations that do not permit or the mind stops our heart from falling and there are no interpretations to all of these.
The bond when we are genuine, loved for what we are makes the togetherness perfect. The chemistry is beyond words when adequate space in a relationship exists, where decisions are respected and the link is strong and mature. These qualities do come with time and depend on how two individuals balance each other as well as on how their nature is. Companionship is about trust, expression and communication. The best part in a relation is that we are able to talk about anything and everything with no judgments and thought.
The commitment need not necessarily include a tag when we are with someone. Do we need the world to know that we are dating her/him and make it known to public? There are some people who are in love and do not care about people knowing that they are with one other, while there are a lot who want to be reminded among the crowd that they are madly in love.
Commitment wouldn’t always mean that we are going to marry that person after some years. We might not know what is going to happen in years to come. The love might fade away, the bond might be stronger than ever, and who knows where we are going to be and what will the situation demand of us. While the idea of keeping the tag is nice, we surely cannot come by as we are single to people because not being in a relationship is fine but trying to be in many is a crime.
As every bit has two sides, with the fun and madness, when things do not work out at some point, it does get hard to lose that special someone, especially when they are our closest friends. The break from each other seems tricky yet easy as we have been together, at the same time led our single lives.
Address the people that matter to us, let the important ones know, let’s not wait for the right time as there is none and let the situations do all the talking.
Shikha is a Chartered Accountant and Client Servicing Executive at JWT Thompson Nepal, Durbar Marg.