2 years ago
Stay calm to study CA: Part II
If you are being a victim of something then it is only because you are allowing yourself to become a victim. Like it is said that the problem in itself is not a problem but not making an effort to get out of it, in fact is the real problem. What I suggest is, if you want to succeed in your studies never memorize, just be wise and you will get your prize.
So, if you face defeat in anything, keep trying, if needed change your approach but let your goal remain the same. “Life seems so hard during articleship period. Also they don’t give us any good job at training.” said once, a friend of mine. The other friend said, “With the number of attempts I have faced in exams and with the profile I have, I don’t think I will get any attractive job offers.”
My friend, there is no such thing as something for nothing and how can someone think of getting without giving. During articleship, what I have learned is to perform every task at your best and do not think of the rest. Articleship is more about learning work culture and client relationship management and not only about practical training.
People mostly lack ambition to aim above mediocrity and lack persistence. Your job profile has nothing to do with the number of attempts you’ve made in exams. In life, some people might appear to be ‘lucky’ and others with equal or greater capabilities seem destined to ride with misfortunes.
This depends upon your ability to control your own mind. If you see it in your mind, you are going to hold it in your hand. Why not think like, latter the better. For example, Amir Khan’s movies take time to release, but when they do they are always certainly successful. It takes time to deliver quality product.
But when finally you become a CA, you might ask “what now?” You should not limit yourself in thoughts of job vs practice. Economy and market is getting bigger and better day by day, and has ample opportunities to offer you. So, explore yourself and think big. You can do anything you want provided that you learn to refuse if needed. Refuse to compromise with life by accepting and keeping a job you don’t want. Decide at the outset whether you intend to become a leader in your chosen calling or remain a follower. Because it is no disgrace to be a follower but it is no credit to remain a follower.
You become a great leader because you are an intelligent follower. Every leader is a great reader. Please do not fear of criticism and if you do so, then it might destroy your power of imagination, take away your self-reliance and limit your individuality. Always remember no one else can dance your dance, sing your song and write your story. You’ll have to do it for yourself. Spread love and show respect. Do not forget to carry that charm and smile on your face.
Try and understand the intangible force of gravity, which keeps this earth suspended in air and keeps man from falling. I believe that you’re great and that there is something magnificent about you. The moment you start to think positively, know, love, help yourself, and then something that is within you will guide you, direct you, protect you and sustain your very existence.